Behind every unsuccessful man there is also a woman

'Behind every successful man there is a woman'. How come no one ever mentioned that behind every unsuccessful man there is also a woman?
By the way, just for you to know, we have many unsuccessful men than the successful ones.

This is a challenge to every woman reading this post to consider their impacts in the lives of their men. Have you brought him peace or doom?
Are you a wise or a foolish woman with the way you handle your affairs?

Opolopo obinrin lo ti le oko won kuro n'ile pelu iwa owo won.
Oro enu obinrin miran ti pa ara mo oko won ninu.
Okunrin miran ti didakuda nitori awon igbese ti obinrin won ti won gbongbon lati gbe.
Many men in a bid to meet the excesses of their women have lost their bearings in life.
Eni to ye ko je oluranlowo wa di aninilara. A supposed-helper now turned a hinderer.

Not every man intentionally set out to cheat. Some wandered off in search of happiness.
An average man wants to enjoy a bit of his space. You don't understand this and you start crying about that he doesn't love you anymore. You want every calls answered (not minding if he's busy or not), every sms replied, every silence to be explained, every dry cough to be met with the word "sorry darling".
Look, men are not customed-built the way you want them to behave. They are intricately wired to think differently.
To a man, not everything matters, not every word is uttered, not every decision is immediate, not every outing should be attended.....but that does not mean his love for you has waned. To you ladies, everything is, and the failure of it attracts an argument.
You want him to buy everything you see at your neighbour's, you want to force down his throat every advice your friends give to you, you want him to treat you like the husband of your friend treats her in the public (even though you don't get to see the behind the scenes shots).
You want him to match your talking skills when you know he cannot, you know his financial strenght yet you come home with demands which exceeds this, you dig into his privacies and if he resists, you subject him to emotional blackmail......!!!

You do all these things and one day the guy decides to run away from the house before he runs mad, o wa nsunkun kiri wipe oko e ti sanle. O npariwo kiri wipe won ti gba oko mo e lowo.
O wa bere aawe ati adura. O bere si n'awo fun awon alaafa ati alawo. Bo se nra miss paris ati candle naa lo nra awon eroja ebo....all to win the heart of your man back.

Look, o need gbogbo iyen. Iwa e lo le jade. Iwa e lo ye ko mojuto. Stop wasting your money on fetish stuffs. It cost you nothing to get your acts together and go and beg him to come back home.
...obinrin so iwa nu o l'oun o lori oko.

To the men, i only have one word-
P A T I E N C E.




**(This write up is my personal opinion, which ofcourse i am entitled to. I am not making a statement for men who'll hide under this guise to cheat on their partners).